Sunday, February 1, 2009

They decided to keep the baby.

Our agency has known for several days and no one bothered to tell us.

I've never felt so sick before.

16 comments:

Rebekah said...

I am so sorry....it's all of our biggest fears. Thinking of you...

Kate @ When Hello Means Goodbye said...

so so sorry, my heart just sank reading this.

Anonymous said...

Oh Nessa I'm so sorry. So so sorry.

Jessica said...

So sorry...no words. Just so sorry...

Anonymous said...

Oh gosh, as soon as I read this my stomach dropped. I remember when this happened to us it was brutal. We also had agency snafu's that put salt on the wound. I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself.

Ashley said...

I'm SO SORRY. There are no words. Our hearts have felt this pain before and I can't describe the depths. Praying for you guys.

Dooneybug said...

So sorry Nessa. I know you are both devastated.

RB said...

I am so very sorry. I have been through a failed match/adoption too. Words can't describe the pain you must be feeling. Sending prayers your way...

Lizzie said...

That sucks so huge. I'm so so sorry. You're in my prayers and I wish I could hug you.

Yoka said...

I am so sorry to hear that. We had also several situations fall through before we were matched with Lilli's birthmother. Keeping you in my prayers.

happymomof4 said...

I am so sorry, I know that there are no words to help you through this,and know how difficult of a time you are have- you are not alone! Sending ((hugs)) and prayers your way!!! God Bless

andnotbysight said...

Oh, Nessa, I'm so sorry.

Karey said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. You're in my prayers.

Crystal said...

I am so sorry. I've been in those shoes - 2 failed matches in the past year. No words will ease the ache inside, only time. As I continue to pray for my own little one to hold, I will hold you gently in my prayers as well. Hugs!

Bec said...

I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say. My heart goes out to you xxx

Cresent Moon said...

I am so sorry. We have also had a failed placement and know how you are hurting now. Keeping you in my prayers!